Being Gay...

Im gay and this aren't really breaking news, however there is people that knows and people that dont.. I honestly feel i dont have to tell everyone on the world about it and somehow i don't fancy writting on a sticker and pasting it on my forehead, should i? I know many gay people may read this and think..'oh well here we go ..another confused girl, she is just still in the closet, going through a phase...etc' it seems that some gay people (please note i dont mean ALL!) thinks that to come out means to tell the world AND to go to gay places all the time, watch gay movies, eat gay food (im exagerating i know) but basically do all gay full stop...
I do enjoy gay programs and places... please dont take me wrong... i just honestly cant live as if that was it all.. I dont like excluding myself from the rest of the world and neither think i should.. I do agree to a certain extent the 'visibility' is needed and i do understand many stereotypes are there due to the fact only certain people will be openly gay, hence people has created stereotypes based on them and asumes we all look, behave,do the same things...etc etc so i know and i guess im not helping by not being very open about it..?!?

To conclude i could say I dont like stereotypes and i try as much as i can to dont put people i know in boxes, however i admit these boxes are part of life and even though i may not like them i have many times used them, and most probably will carry on doing so... Then... talking about boxes, I've been in quiet a few! I have been a happy straight girl with a lovely boyfriend, happy single girl, bisexual (when i admited i liked women thats what i called myself), lesbian now (i guess as my partner is a women)... however i still do find man attractive...so the question will be! am i still part of the previous box? or the fact I've been in a relationship for years keeps me in the latter? LOL..see! thats why i hate these boxes... I'm just a women who happened to fall in love with another one.. and is currently happy, full stop! :)

New Look!

I cant believe is flipping midnight and im still connected due to the blog! i mean.. i wanted to do something quick and ive probably worked harder on changing the template than what i would have done if i were getting paid for it! lol..kidding! i always work hard! cough, cough .. anyway time for me to go to bed now.. im sleepy but i love the new look... !!! (Will definately be posting something interesting here...soon! i promise!)

Getting Old!

I recently added a post to my blog in spanish and I just noticed i did not add it here...as i know there will be more to follow! Im adding it here!. Im getting old! and thats what my post was about. From time to time i get emails with jokes etc with lists of things that make u realise you are getting old. This emails are quiet funny but i have my own list... which makes it undoubtedly.. IM GETTING OLD... FULL STOP! and these are some of the things that make me notice: (Lets keeps the physical/Bodily side of things out! they are there im just ignoring them LOL!)

• When i go shopping i cant help it but have a look at the 'home' section.. and i go.. ohhh how nice! wow, this is useful! errghhhh WHAT? i wouldnt give a !"£$ before!
• I'm well into knowing what is healthy and what isn't? nutrition,weight,hours of sleep are topics i'll talk about ...
• When i see babies! i go.. awwww... that baby is gorgeous! awww.. look at those tiny little shoes! how cute! i mean..! i would probably smile before! now i want to hold them etc! Nooooooooooooooo

I am defitately getting old! Lets hope i have as much energy as the rappin granny! LOL! ... Kneel To The Granny! ELENGI THE GRANNY! GO GRANNY...GO GRANNY ...GO GO ... ha ha ha ha....

Wie Gehts?

I have decided to learn another language, so I am now taking German classes. Why German? errhgg uhmmmm I dont know! why not!?

I just wanted to learn another language and kept trying to make my mind up... This year i thought i will finally make a start... so i checked what was available that suited my free time (not that im really busy) and voila! German it was...

so far.. i am able to count! do you want to see?

Well .. here i go... 1....2....3....4... See!? ha ha ha.. ohhhh I am student... again!

There is a word that i love... will dedicate a full post to it! ;-)

Bad Hair day...

I've got a theory, well two... i dont have bad hair days.. my hair simply has its own personality... or it changes depending of what i do in my dreams...
What about that?... today is a clear example! yesterday i spent some time doing my hair... for what? that is what i wonder!!
This morning i look as if i was in a bonfire night and the fireworks were coming out of my head!...
I'm personally in a good mood but i dont think my hair is.... actually i just looked at myself in the mirror for the second time and i look like EINSTEN!!

Thats right! i wonder if thats my hair's personality!? thing is... I'm a women and im definately NOT as clever as he was.... greeeaaat i just got the Einsten hair then, the hair and nothing else....